Every woman loves to be loved. But more importantly, women love those special little things their man does to show her how much they love her. What makes one woman melt is not going to be the same for all women, so it helps to think specifically about YOUR significant other. Sending flowers is fine, but their are many other ways a man can melt his woman's heart and in ways she will never forget.
Instructions
Step 1) Melt your lady's heart with a full body massage. A sensual touch will go a long way. You may want to put on a some soft music and light a few candles to set the mood. Start by having her undress and lay down on her stomach on the bed. Make sure your hands are soft so that the massage doesn't turn into a natural exfoliator on her skin from your rough, dry hands. You will want to use a lotion or oil for that extra sensual touch. You may choose her favorite lotion, or even buy a massaging oil. KY sells a wonderful self-heating massage oil that is sure to relax her. Whatever you use, make sure you warm it. Now that you have chosen the lotion or oil you will use, start at her feet and work your way up. Be careful to maintain a soft, sensual touch and don't be too rough. You will know if she is enjoying it by the way she is responding. Continue working your way up from her feet, to her legs, on to her buttocks, and then...You get the picture. Hopefully you will make it to her back, shoulders, and neck, which tends to be a woman's favorite areas for massage. If you don't, maybe next time start at her neck and work your way down. Believe me, by the time you get 15 to 20 minutes into the massage, she will be melting into such a relaxed state that she won't want the massage to end. And, she will definitely know you love her.
Step 2) Draw a hot bubble bath for your special lady. Every woman loves to have "me" time and a bubble bath is always a favorite. You want to make sure that the bath is relaxing, so set the atmosphere. Make sure the bathroom is clean and organized. It is hard for a girl to relax if the bathroom is dirty and cluttered. Light a few candles and place them around the tub. Aromatherapy candles work great. Look for aromatherapy scents that are for relaxation and peace, such as Jasmine, Juniper Berry, and Chamomile. These scents help with anxiety and stress and should help bring emotional balance and relaxation. Again, put on a little, soft relaxing music to help set the mood. Make certain that there will be no interruptions during the bath. This should be uninterrupted, secluded, peaceful time for her. Though she won't want to get out of the bath, when she does, she will definitely know that from this gesture, you definitely love her.
Step 3)Treat your special someone to a candlelight dinner. Most women love to have a night free of cooking, and a romantic, candlelight dinner prepared by her favorite man is just what she wants. Make sure that the meal you design is one of her favorite foods. The atmosphere should be quiet and intimate. A nice glass of her favorite wine to accompany the meal is a sure win. And again, burn candles to make the atmosphere more romantic. Women tend to forever remember intimate moments. She will feel so special and loved by this gesture that she in turn, will want to show YOU how much YOU are loved. It is a win-win situation. Don't worry if you aren't a good cook. As long as you have the atmosphere right, she won't even remember how the food tasted! However, if you are still worried about the food, have a lady friend help you prepare it, or even have it catered in.
Step 4) Compliment your special lady on a daily basis, multiple times a day if you can. Women put a lot of time and effort into looking good for their men, so make sure you notice. Tell her how beautiful she is. Compliment her hair, makeup, and clothes. Tell her how nice her body looks in what she is wearing. And don't just compliment her when she has been spending hours getting ready for your special date. Tell her how beautiful she is when she is working in the yard or cleaning the house. This lets her know that you see and love her inner beauty too.
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